February 2011

5 Years with my Best Friend

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by Sheryll on February 28, 2011

I’m taking a detour from travel today to write about the love of my life. Johnny reads the blog so I’m hoping he stops by today icon wink 5 Years with my Best Friend .

Five years ago, after I met Johnny for the first time, I went on Facebook and wrote on his wall:

I’m pretty sure I’m in love with you, let’s hang out! Pretty bold, right? Well, it worked. About a week later, we started dating.

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First picture of us together. I was 19. INSANE!

When we first starting dating, I had no idea that we’d still be together now. At the time, I was 19 and a freshman in college. I was looking to have fun and to NOT sleep in my gross dorm with wet walls (ohhhh the humidity in Florida). Who would’ve known that Johnny would have turned out to be the my best friend and partner for life?

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We’ve been through everything together. We survived through late college nights and 10 page papers. We managed through a long distance relationship while I was in London and he moved to LA. We laughed together after we tried to eat at an IHOP in Alabama and were refused service because we’re an interracial couple (true fucking story). After I moved to LA, we dealt with the struggles of working minimum wage jobs while trying to feed ourselves and pay rent. He still tells me I’m beautiful everyday even though I’ve gained a lot of weight. He’s held me when I’ve cried, he’s dealt with my depression outbursts. He’s the best road trip partner, even if I can’t stay awake longer than an hour. He’s helped me decide that I need to get out of this job rut and start saving for travel.

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I love everything about Johnny. I love the birthmark on his face (I call him my calico icon smile 5 Years with my Best Friend ). I love his laugh, the way he forces me to go to the gym when I just want to punch him. I love the way he’s so passionate about life, his zest for learning, and how he tries to teach me MMA moves. I love the way he does laundry for me and tries to fold my clothes. I love the way I can tell him everything about me without judgement. I love that he actually listens to me. I love that he takes care of me, even before taking care of himself. He’s more than my boyfriend, Johnny is truly the best friend a girl could ever ask for. It’s such a wonderful feeling to know that despite everything going on in my life, I get to wake up everyday next to a man I love unconditionally and I know loves me too.

I love you Johnny. Here’s to another 5!

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Photos of the Week – Santorini – Part 2

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by Sheryll on February 25, 2011

It’s Friday, and I’d rather be anywhere but at the office. I’m feeling really nostalgic, so I decided to feature more gorgeous picture from Santorini, Greece. Because honestly, you can’t get enough. Enjoy icon smile Photos of the Week   Santorini   Part 2

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IMG 1294 Photos of the Week   Santorini   Part 2One of the highlights of my time in Santorini was riding one of the donkeys down the mountain. I  thought I was going to die, as the path is cobblestone and the donkeys just kind of slide down the mountain. Still a fun experience nonetheless!

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Absolute perfection.

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Shoes or Travel? Can’t you have both?

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by Sheryll on February 24, 2011

There’s only one true way to my heart. Shoes. You see those shoes up there? I want them. Bad. I’ve been eying them for weeks now. They have a 5.8 inch heel *swoon*. They’re originally $98, but they’ve gone down to $48. 50% off!

That $48  is 193 Argentina pesos or 1,470 Thai Baht. It’s insane amounts of money, a lot of food, excursions, nights on the beach.  So what’s a girl to do when she hasn’t bought anything for herself in ages?

There’s countless blogs and articles about being frugal while planning a trip. Save! Save! Save! Sell! Sell! Sell! And of course you should save. And before a big trip you should probably get rid of a lot of things. And I’m the first one that needs to get rid of a lot of shit. (I’ve started! 2 bags down to Goodwill already!)  But should you never buy anything for yourself ever again?

Since I’ve been planning for my trip, I have been relentless in saving and I don’t even make a lot of money. All of the extra luxuries I allowed myself are gone. Every little bit of extra change has gone to my trip fund. I’ve stopped getting manicures and pedicures, I’ve started doing my own eyebrows, and I can’t even think of the last time I’ve been seriously clothes shopping. Going out on the weekends has been significantly minimized. I plan meals to save on groceries. I only eat out on special occasions (saving money and weight loss). I don’t go to Starbucks. This trip is super important to me, and I’ve been doing everything I can to ensure that I’m saving money.

My momma always taught me to take care of myself. So I always try to pamper myself whenever I can. Every once in awhile, when I can afford it, I might buy myself a bottle of wine or a new lipstick color, a cheap shirt from Forever 21. But damnit. Those shoes are stealing my heart.

So I’m just going to come out and say it. Those overblown minimalists who make it a point to make you feel bad because you own more than 3 pairs of shoes get on my nerves. I admire your tenacity and gutso for not owning at lot of things, but just because I own more shoes than the average doesn’t make me any less of a person. I love shoes. I always have. Fashion has always been a HUGE passion of mine, and clothes and shoes are more than just things I put on my body. It’s about wanting to look my best at all times, it’s actually something that I care a lot about. I don’t know about anyone else, but I can’t live in extremes. I’ll never be able to be a hardcore minimalist.

Decluttering is great. Getting rid of things is awesome. We all need to do it. I need to do it. We need to save money, we obviously want to travel. But there comes a point when sometimes, you might just really have to bite the bullet sometimes and fucking buy something for yourself and not feel bad about it.

I think those shoes might be mine soon. At 50% off, I don’t think I can pass them up.

And I won’t feel guilty about it. Those 5.8 inches are gonna be mine baby!

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A Very Happy Kanyes-Giving

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by Sheryll on February 22, 2011

While I was in London, I made the best drunk purchase of my life.

KANYE WEST TICKETS AT THE O2 ARENA.

Kanye West, by far is my favorite musical artist (Other than Beyonce). I’ve liked him ever since Through the Wire, to Stronger to Heartless. While drinking in my flat one day, I stumbled upon the ad for Kanye West’s concert at the O2. I let out a giant scream. “KANYE WESTTTTTTTTT!!!!”

Immediately one of my other friends joined my at my computer and made the best suggestion that’s ever been made. “Lets just buy the tickets!” For a mere $60, we really couldn’t pass it up. We were going to see Kanye in London on Thanksgiving Day. We thereby dubbed the day “Kanyes-Giving”.

Then tragedy struck. Kanye’s mom passed away. A string of concert dates were canceled, including the date right before ours. We were sure that he was going to cancel our show, as the funeral for his mom was 2 days before our show.  We checked over and over again, and FINALLY, we received an e-mail letting us know the concert was going as planned. But we had our doubts as to the show would be. Could someone who just buried their mother really give a good performance?

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Throw Your Diamonds In the Sky!

On Thanksgiving Day we got to the O2 arena a good 9 hours before the concert. Turns out a LOT of people had the same idea, as the line for general admission was pretty long. It was all worth it in the end, because we ended up snagging places in the SECOND row. I thought I was going to hyperventilate. Kanye West. London. Second Row. I was in heaven.

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Mr. West gave the performance of a lifetime. There was much fire and passion, so much heart. Multiple times throughout the show he mentioned his mother and how his mom would not want him to give a shitty performance. Seeing Kanye in concert totally reaffirmed for me what a great artist he is. He played for a solid 2 hours, never missing a beat, until the performed the song about his mom, ‘Hey Mama’.

I know people are so used to seeing the cocky Kanye, the Kanye who hurt Taylor’s feelings, the asshole Kanye. But in that moment, there was just a single spotlight on him, he started to rap:

“I wanna tell the whole world about a friend of mine
This little light of mine and I’m finna let it shine
I’m finna take yall back to them better times
I’m finna talk about my mama if yall don’t mind”

Then he choked up. His head in his hands, he sobbed. The music continued playing while the entire arena first sat in silence, then shouting “Kanye!, Kanye!, Kanye!” He then sat down, and finished the rest of the song with so much passion you just couldn’t help but get emotional. In that moment, you saw the REAL Kanye. An amazing performer who allowed his real emotions to shine through his music. It was such an incredible moment that I’ll never ever forget. I’ll forever be a fan.

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Photos of the Week- Sunset at Versailles

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by Sheryll on February 18, 2011

Oh Paris. My favorite city I have been to so far. But we’ll talk about Paris later.

I went to Versailles, but my friend and I ended up getting lost and getting there late and we couldn’t take the tour inside. Instead, my friend and I opted to take pictures of the gorgeous sunset at the gardens. It was absolutely stunning.

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Your Culo is of Perfection!

by Sheryll on February 17, 2011

While in London, I found a ticket to Milan, Italy for about $10 total. Who would pass that up?

Most people ask why I wanted to go to Milan in the first place. First, it’s one of the fashion capitals and fashion is my second passion besides travel. Not going to lie about it, I wanted to go to the famous Prada outlet. I had heard stories of people buying Prada bags for $200, and I was hoping to score my first luxury accessory. Sadly, I didn’t end up going to the Prada outlet, but that’s a completely different story.

While my friend and I were out to dinner one night, we asked the waitress where the best clubs in Milan were. We got directions and set out for a night of dancing with hot Italian male models.

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My friend and I then blindly followed a group of beautiful Italian men who we hoped were going the same place we were. Turns out they were! Striking up a conversation with them, they got us into the club for free, which was apparently one of the hottest in Milan. “All of the models go here”, one tall, gorgeous man told us. Sold.

Throughout the night, my friend and I were showered with free drink after free drink. “AMERICAN GIRLS!”, they would shout and point. We talked with a famous Italian jockey; we danced with many hot male models. In our drunken haze, we did what we thought was a good idea: got on one of the tables and started dancing. Needless to say, this obviously attracted a lot of attention, and being the type of drunk girl I am, I loved every second. I began really putting on the dance moves.

After one of my most famous moves (you know, the one where you drop it low then bring it back up…yeah that one), a GORGEOUS, dark, tall Italian man with the most amazing jawbone of life walked up to the table I was dancing on. In the most Italian way possible, hand gestures and all, he said:

“Your culo is of perfection!”

On the word “culo” he was a hand gesture like he was grabbing a butt. Oh, but I already knew what a “culo” was. Listening to Pitbull sometimes has its perks in international situations. If you didn’t know, culo = ass in Italian and Spanish slang.

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So basically I had this extremely hot Italian guy with the jawline of steel telling me what a great ass I have. I think any other girl might have been offended, but not me. Hell, I worked hard to get that culo of perfection! Long before the trip, I was working out 5 days a week and working with a personal trainer. I knew that I was looking hot that night, and I was workin’ it on the dance floor. I was going to milk it for all that it was worth! I jumped right off of that table and danced with him until 5am.

One of the best things about this story is when I told my mom about the whole situation. She just couldn’t get enough of the fact an Italian male model loved her daughters ass so much. She told the story to ANY and EVERYONE who would listen. She’d say in her cute Southern drawl, “So you know, a good lookin’ Italian man told Sheryll she has a great behind!” Oh, you just gotta love moms.

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My Northern California Road Trip

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by Sheryll on February 16, 2011

Last summer, my boyfriend and I took a completely random road trip to Northern California. By random, I mean we thought of the idea the night before we left. He and I had both never been up north. It was a relatively cheap option for a vacation, so we just packed our bags that night, bought some snacks for the road and headed down the PCH or Pacific Coast Highway.

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Napa Valley Vineyards

It was my idea to take the PCH. Mistake. I wanted the scenic route, he wanted the fast one. He eventually gave in to my complaints, but soon kept throwing me “I told you so” glares. We were stuck in terrible traffic. From Santa Monica to Malibu, a mere 17 miles, took us over 2 hours. Both of us growing increasingly more impatient, I gave in and let him take the highway. I made him promise me to let us take the PCH on the way back.

Our first stop once we got to Northern California was Napa Valley. It was absolutely gorgeous. Rolling hills were filled with vineyards, beautiful weather and a charming countryside. We grabbed a map of the wineries from the hotel and set off to do some tastings. We also grabbed a coupon book, featuring all the wineries that had deals like 2 tastings for 1, 50% off tastings, etc. Remember, there’s SO many deals you’ll rarely have to pay full price for the tastings. We ended up saving well over $100 between the two days we were in Napa.

Day One: We hit a total of 5 wineries. FAR too many in one day. We naively thought that we’d only be tasting sips at each place, not realizing some places actually pour you full glasses. We started off with champagne, some white wine in the middle and we ended with my favorite, reds. At the end of the day, we were couldn’t really taste the differences anymore and we were quite tipsy. We  ended up grabbing a snack and sitting for a hour or 2 in the car to sober up. Drunk driving, for obvious reasons, is somewhat of a problem, and there are cops hiding out just waiting to catch people. Do yourself and others a favor, and if you are feeling drunk, please wait before driving, or hire a cab or car to take you around for the day if you are planning on getting real crazy.

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Champagne!

By far one of the best wineries we went to the day was Sequoia Grove. Nestled among the giant Sequoia trees is a small and cozy winery with some of the best Rosé I’ve ever had in my life. The staff was exceptional, giving us way more tastings than the 3 we paid for. We got giant pretzels to go with the wine, great conversation and even a discount on the bottle of Rosé I just had to buy. Sequoia Grove wines are only available in Napa, so if you ever get a chance to go, please visit them.

After spending 2 days wining and dining, taking Champagne tours and hiking with wild turkeys, we decided to move further north to see the giant Redwood trees. We took the Avenue of the Giants, stopping along the way to take pictures and play tag amongst the giant trees. It was incredible. After singing ‘This Land is My Land’ all throughout elemtary school, I always had a dream to see the Redwood Forests. Completely worth it!

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Biggest treeeeee!

Due to my many protests, we decided to take the PCH down from the Redwoods into San Francisco. For some reason, I had this vision that we’d just be cruising down a highway, with the beach and a sunset, blasting music and going 70 MPH. Not what happened. The PCH is the curviest, windiest, foggiest, scariest drive I’ve ever had in my life. I’m terribly afraid of heights and sometimes we were right on the edge of a steep drop off. We could only go about 20 miles an hour since the roads were so curvy and the turns were so sharp. Before it got dark, we did manage to stop a few times and grab pictures of the coast, as it IS beautiful. But as it started getting darker, the fog started settling in, and then we couldn’t see in front of us, and it became even scarier. There were randomly cows in the middle of the road at times and we had to swerve to avoid hitting them. I was REALLY overreacting, clutching the seats for dear life, thinking that we were for sure going to miss a turn in all the fog and just fall off the cliff. Not to mention with all the twisting and turning, I got extremely car sick and had to pull over a few times. Fail. Once we finally got into San Francisco, after a 4 hour ordeal of near death, I flung myself out of the car and vowed to never take the PCH again. Apparently the PCH has a personal vendetta against me and doesn’t ever want me to drive on it ever again.

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The road that almost killed me

It was my second time in San Fran, and I fell in love with the city all over again. The houses, the streets, it all just feels like a mini amusement park to me. We went to Chinatown where I bought an insane amount of Hello Kitty stuff. We went to Fisherman’s Wharf where I ate too much sourdough bread and saw a man who was dressed up like a bush. Every once in awhile he would jump out and scare people. It was insanely hilarious! We didn’t even realize he’s pretty famous in that area until we got home!

After 5 days,  it was sadly time to go home. Minus the PCH mishaps, the trip was a smashing success, considering we planned it the night before. Northern California will always be one of my favorite travel destinations. Wine, beautiful scenery and great shopping. I’ll just never take the damned PCH ever again.

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